Navigating the Home Buying Process with Three Categories of Wants | Leigh Kaminsky, Realtor

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Buying a home is exciting, but navigating the sea of options can be overwhelming. Don’t fret—I’m here with a streamlined approach designed to simplify your home-buying journey. I recommend dividing your home wish list into three categories: must-haves, nice-to-haves, and dream features. We’ll also explore aspects you could modify or add later. This method aims to make your search clearer and more manageable. So, grab your pen and paper, and let’s get started.

Must-Haves:

These are your non-negotiables, the essentials that, if missing, would be deal-breakers. Key factors often include location, the number of bedrooms and bathrooms, garage availability, and yard space. Anything that would significantly impact your daily living should be listed here. Consider the importance of proximity to work or schools and the adequacy of space for your family and automobiles. Clearly defining your must-haves is the crucial first step in refining your search.

Nice to Have:

This category includes desirable but not essential features. For example, in my experience shopping for my second home, my nice-to-haves included a finished basement, an open floor plan, a two-story living room, a first-floor primary suite, a location on a cul-de-sac, and a swimming pool. Think of these as the icing on the cake and remember you will need to be flexible on these. For instance, I managed to fulfill four out of my six boxes—ending up on a corner near a community pool.

Dream State:

This section is for luxuries that, due to budget or location constraints, are most likely out of reach but would be incredible to have. This might include an ocean view, waterfront living, or a sprawling four-car garage. While it’s good to aim high, be aware that it’s improbable to achieve most of all of these dream features.

Can Be Added Later?

Evaluate whether certain desires can be addressed in the future. Elements like appliances, lighting, paint colors, and flooring can be changed over time. On the other hand, factors like yard size, neighborhood ambiance, and overall location are challenging, if not impossible, to alter.

Conclusion:

In summary, approaching your home search with these categories in mind makes the process more manageable and less overwhelming. If you have a partner, I suggest that you each create your own lists independently and then compare notes. This will help you remain focused on what you need, flexible with what you can compromise on, and realistic about those dreamy extras. Maintain this balance, and you’re on your way to finding a home that will make you happy.

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